Nva,
If the coolant level is low and you added coolant, you may have "solved" your problem.
I would try running her "normally" for an hour or so and rechecking the coolant level.
If it is still low, re-add coolant and remove the two hoses on the port side forward on the engine, just above the alternator while protecting the alternator with a plastic bag and rag.
The two parts connected to the fixed engine hoses are called "restrictors" in the Yanmar manual so you can see what you are looking at.
Take both of them off - both ends. The engine end is 3/4" and the heater end is 5/8".
Remove both restrictors from the assembly by removing one from the small hose (about 3/8" hose) and the other from the 5/8" end.
Now connect the two restrictors to the 3/8" hose.
Reconnect the restrictors to the engine - this takes both the domestic hot water heater and the cabin heater and about 15' of hose out of the engine coolant loop while not changing the flow pattern in the engine.
If the coolant no longer disappears, you have a leak in either your domestic hot water heater (or connections), or your cabin heater (or connections).
To find this leak, at home, Home Depot has a PEX fitting labeled 3/4" "L:" for about $3 that connects to the two loose ends of the hot water heater/cabin heater loop. Use a piece of 3/8" hose on this PEX part and connect it to an ordinary tire inflater available free from the Tire Kingdom" trash pile. Pump the heater loop up to pressure and listen for a leak.
When I did this while searching for my engine loss of coolant problem, I found loose or defective hose clamps were causing a fluid leak. I tightened them - the cabin heater was easy, the domestic hot water heater was very, very difficult for me but I'm over 70 and not very flexible. My present plan is to cut a second 5" access opening under the head sink to improve access to the domestic heater.
Anyway, I can send you photos of the pressure insertion tool (the tire valve) if that helps.
I can also photograph the are where you must cap off the heater hoses and send you a photo of the "restrictor" adapter (Yanmar part number 120650-49830 HOSE,RESTRICTOR) if that helps.
Good luck - if you find your engine leak, maybe I can find mine?