Moving up and staying in the family

Boatagain

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Fluid Motion Model
C-24 C
Non-Fluid Motion Model
Cutwater 30
Vessel Name
Gatsby
Hope some of you find the story interesting. Sorry for the length.

We've owned our Tug since Sept '14 and it was exciting to be back on the water after 15 years without a boat. Not yet retired, my vision was to cruise with the family every available leisure day during the season. Didn't quite work out that way.

Between our nine year old's schedule (cheer, gymnastics, birthday parties...) and my wife's take-it-or-leave-it feelings towards my passion, we've spent maybe a total of four days cruising since Tug Dawg's arrival. The rest were day trips. The few nights we spent aboard with Judy and I exchanging kicks in the v-berth and struggling to pass each other in the narrow passageway did nothing to improve the situation. I started looking at big bow-riders and such since we were primarily day boating, but my beautiful wife was not exactly onboard with purchasing yet another boat.

And then the miracle happened. After nagging her yet again to take a cruise during a week off in June, she relented and off we went across the Chesapeake. We had a great time at a lovely marina while meeting lots of nice people. Our daughter brought a friend and they had a blast too. On the first day Judy commented, "You know, I'm really enjoying this." On the second day, as we passed, belly to belly, trying to set up the berths for the night, she looked at me and these magic words came out, "We need a bigger boat". (With apologies to Roy Schneider)

I muttered something like yeah, I know, but a few minutes later I went out on the dock, looked to the heavens and silently screamed, THANK YOU LORD!! When we got home she couldn't stop talking about how much fun she had. This was for real!

That next week we started boat shopping and, lured by their faster speeds, which would open up our range of destination possibilities, and their snazzy cockpits and interiors we focused on express cruisers. At first we looked at 10-15 year old 45+ footers since that fit our budget and we craved the space. A few musty (and worse) sniffs quickly had us looking at 5-6 year old 35+ footers and we almost pulled the trigger on a pretty Sea Ray 370 Sundancer but the gas engines and those stern drives (all that metal hangin in the water!) had me queasy. More speed than a Tug could provide was important to us since our leisure time is limited and we wanted to go more places. The Cutwaters had never really appealed to me like the Tugs had, they just weren't special enough, besides I never thought of them as being particularly fast, nor did I think their largest, the 30, was big enough. A really lowball offer for my 25 prompted a call to my local Ranger Tug/Cutwater dealer, Pocket Yachts in Grasonville, MD. Mark Schulstad, the owner and John Osborne, the salesman who sold me the 25, surprised me by quoting cruising and top speed numbers for the Cutwater 30. Then they made me an offer I couldn't refuse, offering me top dollar for my trade and a nice price on a new loaded 30 with the 435 hp D6 engine. On our sea trial, Judy pronounced it big enough and darn if the thing didn't hit 30 mph at wot (3 adults, newly painted bottom, 1/4 tank of fuel, empty water tank, smooth seas). We were sold. Suddenly, the Cutwater looked very special.

I'm thrilled to remain in the Fluid Motion family! We take delivery this Friday. Yahoo!
 
Great story and Congratulations!

I am blessed with a wife that loves our R29 so can hardly imagine life 'without'. Now you can really enjoy being together on the water...lots!
 
Many men, sitting at the bar, and the question came up: "What is the nicest thing your wife has ever said to you?"

The hands down winner was "Dear, I think you need a bigger boat."

It's an old joke, nice to know it happens!

Looks like you have TWO winners on your hands. Have a great summer with your wife on your new boat.

Dave
LOBO
 
Yahoo! Same story. It is why we are moving up to the R29cb.
 
Same story with us, we recently moved from a 25 to 29. The extra 1'-6" in beam made all the difference in the world. I was happy with the 25 but my wife really wanted more space for our growing family. It has been great!
 
It has happened to me twice. I had a nice little J22 which I used for racing and day sailing. She kept saying "we need a bigger boat", not all that frequently because she's not a boating person; except for her kayak. So, I bought a bigger sailboat; she was on it one time. Then, every time, I bought a new sailboat, she would ask "can we do the ICW on it?" We finally bought an Albin 27 trawler to see if she'd like a powerboat. Had it less than a year and here came the same statement, "we need a bigger boat". Sold the Albin, started looking, all up and down the East Coast; it seemed like we were in every marina. Finally, in Tarpon Springs FL, looking at 49 foot trawler, she told me she wanted to spend her free time in B & B's, hotels, motels, SPA's, condos and whatever; not on a boat. Suggested I buy something for myself; I did. Bought my first R21EC. Now, I need a bigger boat, a R23 looks good. But, I've been lusting for a R25SC ever since they came on the market. And, I've always liked the R29; I can single hand it. 🙂
 
rt11002003":1w7ft29b said:
It has happened to me twice. I had a nice little J22 which I used for racing and day sailing. She kept saying "we need a bigger boat", not all that frequently because she's not a boating person; except for her kayak. So, I bought a bigger sailboat; she was on it one time. Then, every time, I bought a new sailboat, she would ask "can we do the ICW on it?" We finally bought an Albin 27 trawler to see if she'd like a powerboat. Had it less than a year and here came the same statement, "we need a bigger boat". Sold the Albin, started looking, all up and down the East Coast; it seemed like we were in every marina. Finally, in Tarpon Springs FL, looking at 49 foot trawler, she told me she wanted to spend her free time in B & B's, hotels, motels, SPA's, condos and whatever; not on a boat. Suggested I buy something for myself; I did. Bought my first R21EC. Now, I need a bigger boat, a R23 looks good. But, I've been lusting for a R25SC ever since they came on the market. And, I've always liked the R29; I can single hand it. 🙂

Hello Gene,

WOW!...that's a LOT of boating experience all in one post.

Sounds like you better get your current 21EC listed and start looking for the R25SC or .... 😉

/dave
 
Now we all have had the two-foot itch, but 5 feet all at once!
Come on now, you're killing me down here in the cheap seats :mrgreen:

ps, nice boat, can I get a ride 😉
 
Thanks all for your kind thoughts and good wishes. I live in the cheap seats too, but I told myself, "F*#k it, I've worked hard all my life and I deserve it!". Thought about naming her YOLO, but that's been done. Instead she'll be named GATSBY after that other famous party animal. Here's to five-foot-itis! If it's as contagious as some of the other pathogens out there, we've all got a chance. 😀
 
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